What Is My Primary Life Lesson Overlight Part 3
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We work to master 12 primary life attributes in our experience as humans. With each lifetime we choose 1 primary life lesson to work with and continue to work on it in consecutive lifetimes until we achieve “mastery” of that single attribute.As you read the list of lessons you may recognize one or more of the attributes. These are life lessons that you have already mastered in this or previous lifetimes. There will be a blind spot in recognizing your present primary lesson. This is where an Overlight facilitator can help identify your primary life lesson. All these lessons may present themselves to you in this lifetime but it is usually one that will have the most effect on your behaviors. It’s like a student choosing a major to focus on but will also study other subjects.
1. Acceptance; Self-esteem, most often taken in female form but not restricted to it. Also described as self-sabotage, whereby a person will “do everything right but it still does not seem to work”.
2. Adaptation; This is the ability to adjust to change. This lesson makes people do everything possible to keep everything in their life on an even keel. They believe in order to succeed they need to keep everything from changing. They often have a hard time making any decision at all that would involve change. It doesn’t always appear to be a problem in their lives until they are faced with drastic change that they realize they are unprepared for it.
3. Be-ing; In this lesson people believe they are not whole and have the need to be constantly adding something to become whole. This can be food, relationships, alcohol or drugs. It can be an obsession of any kind, and it can easily turn into addiction and often does.
4. Charity; Charity is walking in the constant knowledge of the connection to all things in all actions. It has been construed to mean giving, but charity is not the art of giving alone. Charity is in honoring the connection you have to all people in actions. When your actions honor all people you are the one who rises. A person working with the life lesson of charity has a blind spot when it comes to paying attention to the needs of other people. They may appear selfish or simply not caring.
5. Communication; From the heart. This lesson is more popular with males. Speaking their feelings and letting their needs be known honestly is very difficult. They may be prone to reverting to silence when they are tired or stressed. This lesson makes success in relationships very difficult.
6. Creation; Expressing Power. Working to master this lesson the person cannot see their own creations or their ability to create. A belief in lack and sometimes perfectionism often provide the perfect excuse for a person to not create for themselves. Mostly taken in female form in our society, where the male has traditionally been the most supported to create. Add to this a lack of self-confidence and you have wives who often hide their creations from their mates or create through their spouses giving the illusion that it is the spouse who is the creator. If this relationship ends the husband’s success often seems to fail without cause. Understanding the power one has to create is the key to mastery of this lesson.
7. Definition; Expressing infidelity through boundaries. This is a very popular lesson for females. They carry emotional empathy. They tap into other’s emotions, thought patterns and energy so easily that they often do not realize that it is not their own energy they are feeling. Their challenge in this lesson is to keep that energy from back feeding and draining them. Boundaries are the key factor in this life lesson.
8. Integrity; Walking in harmony with yourself. The four lines of integrity are what you speak, how you act, what you think, what you believe. If one or more of these lines don’t match the others, the vibration sent out becomes blurred and unclear. When a blurred signal is sent out a blurred result is returned in all the experiences of this person’s life.
9. Love; Love of self. People experiencing this lesson can often appear to give love to everyone and everything, sometimes only through the fear of being alone. A person working on this life lesson can often get stuck in a cycle of fear. Afraid that if they are left alone there will be no-one to love them. The key to mastery in this lesson is the ability to love one’s self.
10. Trust; Trusting self. This is an easy lesson to understand and a hard one to master. These souls venture into set ups that constantly reinforce that they cannot trust themselves. This lesson is usually set up by a person, maybe mother or father who abuses them, so the individual learns not to trust anyone. It gives them difficulty trusting themselves to take their own power. They don’t trust themselves enough to allow themselves to be vulnerable. Once this life lesson is mastered these people are seen walking through life with an inner sense of direction. They trust themselves enough to not need to know.
11. Truth; Personal Responsibility. People going through this lesson will have difficulty discerning and standing in their own truth. Thus, the tendency will always be to adopt the truth of others as their own. They may see themselves entirely through the eyes of others. They often become incapable of being truly honest with themselves. Outwardly they may tell lies and create excuses, rather than be honest about what is really going on in their life. Once they start taking responsibility for their own reality, then mastery of this life lesson will begin.
12. Grace; Walking in harmony with all things. This is the final step to mastery. This is a lesson that teaches the destination is unimportant. It is the journey and the grace with which you experience this journey that is important. How often do you wake up and say, “I love my life, I can’t wait to see what today holds”? This may sound like simple positive thinking, but it is much more. When you see yourself as a player of the “game” of life and allow yourself to play the game with grace then the mastery of all lessons becomes not only easier but even enjoyable.
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Why Does This Keep Happening..Overlight Part 2
Spiritual enlightenment is a buzz word in our society these days and it’s meaning sometimes gets lost. Buddhists have used this term for centuries but it has been only recently that we have adopted it to describe a process in our lives. But, what does it mean? To me, it can be simply stated. We see ourselves as human beings searching for a spiritual awakening when, in fact, we are spiritual beings trying to cope with a human awakening.
What causes us, as spiritual beings, to seek these human experiences in the first place? What sets certain patterns in our life into motion? Why do these patterns emerge in our own behaviors?
If you feel stuck; can’t find your passion; need confirmation of your path; are searching for the “why” of events in your life; this information may be helpful. This is what the Overlight process is all about. It is like sitting on a fence, observing your situation from a distance void of judgment. Looking at it from “God’s perspective”. From a wider point of view knowing that there is no right or wrong, it just is. In Overlight, we identify your “primary life lesson” and how it fits into your life. Looking at these patterns from a higher perspective makes them easier to recognize and change. The intent is to help people move past guilt, look at themselves honestly without judgement and step into empowerment to create the life of their choosing.
An Overlight facilitator simply shines the light on those “dark areas” those “don’t go there” subjects. Looking at your experiences from a spiritual or wider perspective, getting into the details of the events. From this perspective we will hopefully show you how the events fit into your life lesson and change what has always been a “negative” experience for you to a perspective of them being “positive” and necessary for you to “master” your lesson. This process is called mastery, which is the intent of the Overlight process to help people master their primary life lesson in this lifetime.
The results of mastery will ripple down through all parts of your being releasing blocks that may be showing up in your minds or bodies in the form of dis-ease. Really all we are there to do is to help you remember who you truly are, the creator of your own reality.
There are some basic assumptions that form an integral part of this process:
1. There is an assumed belief that we are simply energy which can never die but can only change forms or simply put re-incarnation.
2. There is an assumed belief that we are actually spiritual beings experiencing life in human form.
3. There is an intrinsic belief that we experience life within a field of polarity, therefore, we see us as separate from one another when, in reality, we are inseparable. Thus, the concepts of “good and bad” “right and wrong” “black and white” “love and fear” etc. are all illusions of polarity.
4. There is an understanding that humanity is undergoing a quantum leap in our evolution, causing us to seek higher truths to support our newly heightened state of awareness. (enlightenment).
5. There is an understanding that the human spirit is an incredibly powerful force of creation, and as such, life is simply a self fulfilling prophesy.
If we understand that we have the power to heal ourselves it is no longer appropriate for us to give our power away to anyone else, including healers and facilitators. This is a drastic change in the overall perception of healing. People go to the doctor expecting to be healed. With Overlight we take no responsibility for your healing as that would be taking your power. There is no “shoulds” or shouldn’ts” given you. No regimen to follow. With the power to heal also comes personal responsibility for the healing.
The Overlight golden rule is as follows:
” Heal another and you may change their life”
” Help another to heal themselves and you will change the Universe”
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